When the child is born, both fears, and doubts, and alarms come to our life besides joy: how to give to the kid the best and to avoid mistakes in his education and to accustom to discipline?
Instruction
1. When the child is born, both fears, and doubts, and alarms come to our life besides joy: how to give to the kid the best and to avoid mistakes in his education and to accustom to discipline?
2. Do not load the child excessive classes and duties. Do not raise on him the voice and you do not say a phrase: "I told! Quickly make! So it is necessary! You have to!". Such relations between the parent and the child are based on fear that can provoke uneasiness, isolation of the kid, aggressive behavior. The saved-up psychoemotional pressure caused by suppression of emotions can lead to emergence in the child of neurotic reactions, create difficulties in training and communication with peers.
3. Revise the requirements, such method of education not to allow to accustom the kid to discipline. You praise more often and encourage it. Phrase: "I told, quickly make!" replace on: "Make, please, as I ask, and at you everything will turn out!".
4. Be not upset if at it not at once everything turns out, the main thing not to beat off desire and hunting to obey parents not to nullify all efforts, to accustom him to discipline.
5. To grow up the disciplined child, do not forget, despite all difficulties you have to adhere to these principles. So the kid will try to imitate you that considerably will facilitate education. Teach the child to follow requirements of society, avoiding personal offenses and to satisfy the inquiries without prejudice to society.
6. Try to estimate possibilities of the of the baby more correctly. As disobedience can be caused it by misunderstanding. Pay attention to its feelings. Learn to recognize own mistakes if you were rude with it, apologize. So you will set it an example as it is necessary to behave in such situations with close people.