Each person, at least the only time in life, was the witness of a situation at which were present: the child who shouts on the street or in shop, demanding something from the adult, and the adult parent who cannot calm the child any arrangements and punishments. The main aspect, of course, here is the permissiveness in education, but not always, sometimes, and is even very frequent, the child just requires to himself attention, something disturbs him or he is afraid of something.
How to learn to understand own child and not to allow similar manifestations, especially in public places? It is necessary not only listen, but also to hear that any person, and in particular the kid who did not learn to state accurately and clearly the thoughts and experiences yet tries to inform attention.
The first what it is worth paying attention, it, undoubtedly, education to. Do not allow anybody (but especially yourself) to excessively indulge or indulge the child, do not carry out thoughtlessly all his whims. In order that the kid did not "demand" something in shop or near the booth, "rolling up" at the same time a hysterics, it is worth cultivating in it one simple quality – responsibility. It is simple to give to the child a bag of mittens or a kerchief and to tell that he has to watch closely it. Then all attention will be abstract on "a responsible task" which to it was charged as to the adult.
Try to explain to the kid (when he already is in the age of reason) that on any purchase money is required, and they should be earned, and not always in the easy way (children understand it already somewhere at the age of 3-4 years). Then problems with purchases will be one many less.
If the child does not calm down, then him, maybe, something frightened or disturbs, squat, so that your eyes appeared approximately at one level, and listen to what he speaks about. It for the adult the children's problems can be trifling, and it is necessary for the kid that listened to him and helped to cope with the arisen situation. Try to understand what caused similar concern, embrace the child (parental embraces even bring to the adult calm).
And the most important, it is necessary to remember that it is impossible "to wave away" from similar situations at all or to indulge them in everything. Then the child will become reserved over time, or will begin to behave still kaprizny, proceeding from the fact that the adult will make and will buy everything if only not to allow similar situations.