How the love is born? For what do people love each other? Scientists and writers, artists and philosophers struggle with a solution of this secret centuries. And lovers continue to love, sometimes without realizing why this person became such native and necessary.
Love for advantages or for shortcomings?
Love the person at all not for the fact that he is beautiful, clever, talented, makes good money and has no bad habits. Love just for the fact that he exists. The one who falls in love with someone's advantages risks to fall a victim of disappointment. At an early stage of love the people are inclined to idealize the elect. Completely different if the person sees all his shortcomings, but continues to love even for them.
The mutual love when people live for each other is fine, and everyone tries to make the darling happy. However often there is also it that one of partners loves, and another only allows to love itself. Of course, one of them is selfish, but the one who loves really is capable to forgive all and to be happy only the even if meek feeling.
Quite often mutual sympathy is born if it becomes interesting to people to communicate with each other. But when they really fell in love, just it is good to them even to be silent together. Lyubov is born not in time of nights full of violent passion, and during quiet, slow walks when people just hold each other by a hand. Sometimes absolutely young girls cynically argue that one love you will not live that it is necessary to find the wealthy person who is standing on the own two feet. However when the real feeling comes, it does not become important at all how many at the person of money whether it has an opportunity to bring armfuls of flowers and to drive the darling on expensive restaurants.
What does the love differ from passion in?
People sometimes confuse true love and suddenly flashed passion though it is rather easy to distinguish them. When really love the person, first of all, want him to be happy even if with someone another. And indispensable desire to possess him is a strong, but rapid passion. The passion is most often caused by attractiveness, but the person can be, have seriously ill an accident and it is even simple to begin to grow old. Then the flash of passion will quickly die away, and the one who is still healthy and good himself will find for himself a new object. There are many people with whom it is possible to feel well when in life there are no problems. If at a door the trouble is knocked, it is necessary that the loving and reliable person who will never betray and will help to overcome any difficulties was near. Each person has to have the one who loves and accepts him it as is. Then he will feel protected from any struggles of life and shocks.