Happy parents wait for appearance of the firstborn and, of course, they have many questions on subjects of feeding, hygiene, walks, a dream, clothes, inoculations. These questions are natural due to the lack of experience. How to learn to be good mother? About it practically any woman who waits for appearance of the kid wonders.
Even if you are very busy or household chores, to make it not and it is difficult. It is not necessary to study it specially. You already good mother for the child. Just follow several rules to build up cordial and trusting relationship with the kid:
1. Kiss and more often embrace him. The child needs tactile contact. So he feels your love for it.
2. You look to it in the face more often. The visual contact is important not less touches. You look in his face with love, and it will be happy.
3. Find for it time. Even 30 minutes in day of high-quality communication when your thoughts are not busy or other cares, will give to your child feeling of necessity.
4. Play with it those games which he loves. Do not think at this moment about methods of early development, just play and enjoy communication with the kid. The childhood passes very quickly, do not miss an opportunity most again to feel the child.
5. You praise more often, criticize less. The criticism destroys even the adult what to speak about the child.
6. Listen carefully to it when he wants to tell you something or to ask. You now the main person in his life and he trusts you. Postpone all the affairs for a minute and listen to the baby. Do not lose his trust in vanity of everyday life.
7. You say to the kid pleasant words, that you love him as waited for it and that it is important for you. It will help it with formation of a healthy self-assessment.
Observance of these rules will help you to understand how to become good mom. Listen to yourself, the kid and forgive yourself even if made any mistake. Forgive and move further. Do not allow this cargo of fault to spoil your relations with the baby. And the most important, enjoy this time. Children grow very quickly, and the childhood happens only once in life.