After three years of life the child begins to endure a transition period. This time of growing from an infancy to younger school age. At the child the character, habits changes, unmotivated hysterics begin. Parents can only advise to enter this age of the child already prepared.
What most of all confuses parents of three-year-olds? Constant hysterics from scratch. But it only seems to adults that the child has no reasons for bad behavior, and actually their set. At this age any unpleasant situation is built by the child in grotesque. Overtired? Tears. Did not buy a toy? A hysterics with fulling on a floor. Hungry? Again a hysterics with unclear requirements.
What parents in such situations can make. At first to calm down even if your kid sobs on the sidewalk of the busy street. Do not react to such whims in any way. Just quietly ask it to rise and go further. Here you will see, in a couple of minutes he will get up indifferently and will quietly follow you. Train internal tranquility. For the child the most important – your reaction. If it is absent, means and there is no reason for a hysterics.
By three years the child already accurately it has to "is impossible" to understand word meaning, "no", "dangerously". And all family members and all who have contact with the child have to adhere to this line (the nurse, the grandmother). It is impossible to sit on a windowsill also a point. No, sweet for the night is impossible. Gradually such bans will be perceived as due and will not cause misunderstanding. But all bans have to be proved.
You watch the emotions. Our children – specular reflection ourselves. If parents fall into aggression, shout, swear, beat, then it is not necessary to be surprised that such manner of behavior is adopted by children. If you feel that you are not able to behave any more, just depart from the child, be closed in other room. And there you can cry, shout, hit with fists into a pillow. And to children it is necessary to leave already completely having calmed down. And only if the fault of the child was serious, to talk to him about his behavior, but already without excess emotions.
Crisis of three years can be expressed brightly in those situations when the child for the first time goes to a garden, it has a younger brother or the sister, mom comes to work, the nurse appears. All this a huge stress for the child. In three years the mentality of the kid is not ready to such changes yet, and he is already recognized as big. Yes such as he, according to parents, can already see off till several hours a day in the company of unfamiliar children, independently play moreover and help about the house. Do not force an event, let's the child stay the child.