If you realize that your kid becomes uncontrollable, it is necessary to take measures urgently. Re-education of your spoiled child will take a lot of time, but this process is necessary for full development of the kid.
Instruction
1. Introduction of an accurate day regimen. It is necessary to spend a lot of time and forces to teach the child to rise and lay down at the same time. But as a result of the disciplined kid it will be much easier to accustom also to other important actions, for example, to brush teeth and to make a bed. But consider that the child will observe a day regimen only if you adhere to it.
2. Assign some duty to the child. Let it will be simple – to water flowers, to feed a cat or to take out garbage. But these simple actions will teach the kid to respect and appreciate your work, to be responsible for the charged business.
3. Take the child's food under the control. Health and working ability of any person depends on his food. Limit amount of sweets to reasonable limits, allow to eat only them after a full-fledged lunch or a dinner.
4. Establish the new rule in family – to watch TV no more than 2 hours a day. Unlimited time of watching TV and infinite computer games lead to serious problems with children's nervous system. Conclude the agreement with the child: it is possible to spend from 30 minutes till 1 o'clock at the computer only when receiving a good mark at school or performance of some housework.
5. Suggest the child to choose sport independently. Allow it to splash out the energy which it is a lot of at children, for improvement of the body and strengthening of health. The sport which will be chosen by your child can be any – all of them bring big benefit. Physical activities will help to develop positive traits of character – persistence, will power, patience.
6. Provide communication with peers. If your kid already got 1-2 friends or girlfriends, invite these children to yourself. Until your child communicates with them, do household chores. It will be fine if on a visit to your son or the daughter friends at whom is to what begin to come to learn.
7. You praise the child more often. Children are very not indifferent to a praise, you should not disregard their slightest achievements. Explain to the child that you very much are proud of him if he does right thing, helps about the house, successfully studies. But let it know that at failure it will be also expensive to you.
8. You teach the child to patience. Often spoiled children are characterized by lack of patience, they need all and at once. If he asks you to make something, for example, to read him – use it, you do not hurry to him on the first call, develop at it patience. Explain that you read him when be released. Having sustained a little time, comply with its request – thereby you will bring up the relation at the child to you as to the personality, but not as to means of satisfaction of his requirements.
9. Talk the child more often. Your communication with the kid should not come down to ten minutes of notations. Use any free time for a talk, tell about the childhood, important events in it, about other people and their acts, you speak about animals, plants, birds, insects. Try to bring up in the optimist's child, show him beauty in all manifestations, you teach it to watch the nature. Direct talks and your personal example will become for the child an important factor in education of positive traits of character.