After a year as soon as the kid learns to go, it is necessary to train it in skill of circulation for the handle. It is important because to go near mom nearby, but not to run away somewhere is a natural behavior of the child. It is not training, but the need connected with safety of your child. In the habitat mom is the leader, and her kid – conducted. Mom establishes borders of permitted, explains the rules necessary for life. During training the child has to understand that there are walks for a research of the interesting world, and there are walks on affairs.
There are many ways of training in following, and each mom chooses what suits her and the child. But all ways proceed from two main.
- The first method is better known. It is a little rough, but works smoothly. It is suitable for children who already surely go legs.
If the child quietly went nearby, and then decided to curtail on the affairs or will stop, then sharply take him for armpits and transfer him to couple of meters forward. Then release and again take by hand. If the situation repeats, then and you repeat the actions. Do not abuse the child and you do not shout at him. Do not wait until the child leaves far. If you run for the running-away kid, then he can take such behavior for a game in "game of tag". Therefore release the child at most on meter. Studying, walk always with some purpose, along the set route (for example, on mail or in shop).
- The second method which was more "sparing" for the child, but more nervous for mom.
It is based on "agreeing" with the child. Having left to walk, you lay down to the child a condition that you will carry him on hands to a certain place, and then he will walk independently. The main complexity can become the fact that the child will refuse to walk. He will begin to cry, be capricious only in order that it was taken on hands again. Only the patience will help with such situation. But you have to achieve that the child at least walked a little. If you manage it, then praise him, then take on hands with a new condition again. At such way it is necessary to consider age of the child, his physiological abilities and season (it is easier to go in the summer, than in the winter).
It is convenient to go for the handle not only for mom, but also it is safe for the child. Therefore it is necessary to have patience and to train the kid in such skill.