The serious illness is a test not only for the most sick, but also for all family. Doctors often are not too soft on patients, reporting about the diagnosis at once. To the patient most very much difficult will cope with it, but it is even more difficult to report about it to family.
Diseases happen different weight, curable and is not present, sexually transmitted or through blood. If your disease is not infectious, then it is possible to hold back it, otherwise you are simply obliged to report about the disease to relatives to protect them from danger.
Venereal diseases
By mistake will consider that all venereal diseases are transmitted sexually, some of them can extend through other liquids of a human body – saliva, urine, blood. Having learned about the diagnosis, you first of all have to protect people around from too close communication with you.
It is the most difficult to report about a venereal disease to the spouse or the young man, if he is self-assured, then by all means will suspect you of treason. It cannot prove that you had no foreign communications, and were infected during treatment of tooth, having visited the pool or having drunk in cafe tea from a dirty cup. But it is necessary to report about this disease, even at the price of break in relations. The disease constitutes danger to your darling, he has to be treated too. It is the best of all to begin a conversation from far away not to cause severe mental anguish. It is possible to ask about health of the elect. It is the best of all to construct a conversation so that your darling himself suggested to make tests. Tell, for example, that read about the outbreak of some disease in your area. Paint in detail as it is possible to be infected with this disease. Share with it the suspicions that ached. If your spouse / the young man does not suggest to make tests, then make it. In case of treason it is necessary to admit it and, most likely, to leave darling. If you cannot tell him about it in eyes, then write the letter. Tell about under what circumstances and when there could be infection, insistently advise to descend to the doctor and to make tests.
Hepatitis C and HIV
It is necessary to know that hepatitis and HIV is transmitted through blood. At sexual contact if there were no mechanical damages which are followed by release of blood, these diseases are not transmitted so your relatives in relative safety. However, nobody will be able to tell with confidence when you were infected and whether there was your disease congenital. Anyway, it is necessary to hint the family that they took a blood test on analyses. Before telling that are sick properly think when and as you could be infected. It is not as difficult as it seems. Most often infection occurs during the medical procedures when you treat teeth, take a blood test on analyses or during an injection. Begin a conversation from far away. Cite as an example the famous people who, having HIV or hepatitis, live and are well. Complain that nobody from it is insured. Look at reaction of the family. If they in horror grabbed heart that such horrible diseases exist, postpone a conversation, but surely come back to it from time to time, convincing that with such diseases it is quite possible to live if to adhere to certain security measures. It needs to be repeated until your family does not understand that, though terrible, diseases these not deadly. When you see that people around are ready to accept information on your disease, it is necessary to report about it tactfully. Begin, for example, so: "I wanted to become a donor recently, but there it was necessary to make tests on hepatitis C and HIV. When I the analysis handed over, told that I have a positive reaction. Therefore it is necessary to take a blood test on more careful research". Look at reaction of your family. If reaction too emotional, you see that they are not ready to accept news of your disease, you should not say at once that the diagnosis is already made. Give them time to get over that you can be sick. Tell that made tests repeatedly. During this time try to prepare family for the fact that the diagnosis will be confirmed. To protect the relatives from danger, you watch yourself. Do not give anybody the manicure accessories, a hairbrush, a toothbrush, a towel, clothes, etc. If before you had no such habits not to cause suspicions get to yourself two sets of all – one for private use, and second "general".
Cancer
The oncology is treated too, depending on in what stage it was found, but it is not infectious. Therefore if you see that your family cannot accept your disease, do not report to them about it. In case of any disease the support is necessary for you. If you cannot receive it from relatives, address to the center of psychological assistance by such patient as you. There you will meet other people living with similar illnesses with which you will be able to share the experiences.