Pregnancy is a remarkable moment in life of each girl. But not always it so. The question begins to appear at absolutely very young girls: "How to tell about it to mother?"
When the girl has a constant guy, it is quite good. Worst of all will be if flew just from the first comer.
There are factors which influence decision-making:
- Finance — whether future mummy is able to bring up the little man.
- Age — the more young, the worse it a situation. In 14 years it is necessary to study, but not to give birth.
Therefore in this situation one decision — abortion. It is necessary to inform the mother. She will help you, will prompt how it is correct to make then not to be sorry about it.
If you decided to make abortion that can learn how much is abortion
But how after all to tell? Just say all: "I am pregnant".
In that case experts advise:
- Young mother has to understand that she is pregnant. She is obliged to decide that to do to her: to give birth to the kid or abortion. You can calm the parents the sound arguments.
- Also she has to think that people will think of it.
- Think of the future. Whether will manage to combine study and the child? Whether parents will help?
- You speak quietly with parents.
- It is better to tell that person to whom you trust (father, mother).
- Know that parents do not wish you bad, and not enemies. At the difficult moment will always support.
Because that you in situation, it is not still an occasion to consider themselves adult. Also it is not necessary to delete youth and the adolescence from the life. You will be mistaken, you will be sorry then.
The girl should not feel growing not a body, and reason. In our modern world the girls begin to ripen early. First of all, the girl has to think of consequences before having sexual relationships with the peer.
Anyway it is necessary to inform the parents of the pregnancy. And already all together have to think whether they will be able to grow up and bring up the child.
And what future father?
Almost most of boys when learn that will become the father soon, begins panic at once and speak about abortion. They, of course, can refuse the kid at the same time still to accuse the girl of the incident.
But there is also it that the guy recognizes the baby the and helps future mother. In such situations time just flies and therefore, than quicker tell everything to parents, for you it is better for those.