Hard business for parents is training of the kid for kindergarten. To facilitate adaptation process parents have to know:
- arrange life of the kid of the house to the schedule of a garden, so the child will be able to get used to it. Try to interest and cause desire at the child to go to kindergarten, show the building of a garden during walks and look how children walk, tell about their life.
Explain that it is important to children to go to a garden, as well as to parents for work.
At first you should not leave the child in a garden for the whole day, to the kid it will be difficult to get used to rules. Teach him to put on, fold independently clothes, to hold a spoon and to eat.
Never frighten the child by a garden, it will only worsen accustoming process. Accustom the child to communication with age-mates. You drive the child with the husband in turn, so it will be easier for child to say goodbye. Before sending the child to kindergarten it is necessary to undergo full medical examination.
You teach the child to elementary rules of conduct, explain to him that to fight and bite, take others things, it is impossible to leave a garden to one or with foreign person.
The child begins to perceive the world around not as adult, often his imaginations intertwine with reality and when the child lies, sincerely he trusts in it. It is important to parents to learn to distinguish imaginations of own child from a real lie. The child learns to lie at the parents therefore do not forget about it.
It is necessary to abuse the child only on business if to demand obedience in everything, then he will grow up dependent and lacking initiative.
Explain to the child a difference between boys and girls. The kid needs to know the boy he or the girl, in a garden the child will see distinction of floors, and the main thing that for the child it did not become shock.
You praise it for progress, be tactful and patient and everything will turn out.