Treachery seldom is expected and when it is made by the closest people, it becomes the real shock. Adultery has a set of the reasons and prerequisites, however betrayal of the wife from the psychological and moral point of view is thinner and ambiguous. Such behavior of the woman is perceived by society more sharply, and to that there is quite certain explanation.
In our society by the developed traditions the wife is considered the invariable keeper of homeliness, family and the relations. On female shoulders the responsibility for harmony and a harmony between spouses lays down therefore often and the reproaches connected with failures in marriage direct towards the wife too.
The reasons of a men's adultery most often lie on a surface and speak rather easily, and here such behavior from the spouse practically always has deep roots.
Cardinal differences
It is considered that usually the woman decides on treason not because of the physiological needs or sexual dissatisfaction for a matrimonial bed. The basis of such act is formed by rather psychological factors. If the wife does not feel care and love from the husband, then the most habitual way of replacement of sincere emptiness search of these feelings in embraces of other man will become. However in that case the adultery will indicate deep crisis in the relations between married couple.
That is women's treason is a certificate that the family breaks up and that the wife is unfortunate. Whereas the man can decide on treachery just because of physiological inclination, without having claims to the spouse at all though it is difficult to call such behavior normal and correct. But it indicates fundamental differences between the reasons of men's and women's treason, so if the wife decided on it, then quite possibly to marriage the end came.
Public opinion
So it developed that it is public or hidden, but society condemns numerous intimacies of the woman and furthermore hobbies on the party. Until recently the girl who afforded intimate relations prior to a wedding was considered as "a family shame" and appeared "idle", and it was inexcusable to fool around at all. All this invisibly leaves the mark on perception of women's treason per se as subconscious installations about inadmissibility of similar behavior work. For some people the image of mother, keeper of the house and family, so prevails that deprives the woman of any right to show a weak point or to make a mistake.
Consequences
Most sharply betrayal of the wife is transferred by her husband, and it is quite clear. However the problem of treachery is aggravated with the fact that the man is quite seldom capable to forgive to the woman such offense. A similar incident for the spouse can become excessive as the wounded man becomes rather an a laughing-stock, and here the woman who caught blessed can be been sorry and support. It does not mean that it is easier for it to endure treachery, but traditionally it is considered that the wife has to forgive for preservation of family though it in a root is wrong. Despite of the reasons, any treason is pain and sufferings for the loved one therefore it is difficult to both men, and women to endure treachery.