Self-development is an independent improvement and improvement of quality of life, elimination of problems at the physiological and spiritual level of the person. What to begin self-development with? If you already asked yourself such question, so you are at the first stage of self-development of the personality. Any plan of self-development always begins with understanding that time something came to change in the life.
After you dealt with the thoughts, were determined to begin work on itself, you need to sit down at a table and to transfer all positive and negative sides of the life to paper. And not to present that you wrote down everything, and to sit down and write down – here you will see, the result will be absolutely other.
Ways of self-development will depend directly on to what sphere of your life you decided to bring order first of all. You should not be accepted to several problem parties at once, it is better to concentrate at first on one problem, to direct all forces, for example, to appearance, and then to start the following aspect.
So, with what to begin the development?
Once again we will repeat, the first steps to self-development it is readiness for self-development, understanding by the person of the problems, dissatisfaction with life and adoption entirely of responsibility for own life, for its level.
The first method of self-development is record on paper of all aspects of life and their value judgment.
For example, you can get 4 columns in which write down the main parties for positive development of your life.
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Health |
Relations |
Work |
Creative realization |
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Physical shape |
Intimate relations |
Financial independence |
Reality of implementation of spiritual needs |
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General health |
Relations with relatives |
Satisfaction with financial position |
Respect of society |
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Appearance |
Relations with strangers |
Satisfaction with an operating position |
Search of meaning of life |
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Receiving spiritual esthetic food |
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Assessment: 3 (udovl.) |
Assessment: 4 (well) |
Assessment: 2 (neud.) |
Assessment: 4 (well) |
The following methods or steps to self-development it is the choice, search and the beginning of action. Choose that most of which of all at the moment needs improvement from four columns. Find means or means of self-development of the chosen aspect of life. For example, means of self-development in the sphere of health are sports, in the sphere of the relations – communication and studying psychology, in the working sphere – continuous increase in knowledge and abilities, in the sphere of creativity – books and communication with interesting, creative people.
In addition to the aforesaid look at yourself in the city of the experts conducting lessons of self-education and self-development and register in visit, most likely, they pass in a form of seminars. If you do not find such seminars, then it is possible just to register to the psychotherapist who to you will help to make the plan of self-development, will prompt, from what, to you to begin self-development.
In conclusion, you also should not be limited to this article, and to look for and study additional good literature on self-development of the personality.
Progress to you in work on!
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