Flirtation at work: pros and cons

Flirtation at work: pros and cons

Any work initially assumes accurate following to rules and instructions. However people not robots, and emotions sometimes get the best of reason. Especially if business concerns the relations between colleagues of an opposite sex. To someone the mutual sympathy and little flirtation help to be adjusted on a working harmony, and can only disturb someone. Overstepping the bound of labor relations, it is necessary to represent accurately what all action can lead to.

It is good if you are free, and you have nothing to lose. Statistically, 67% of strong married couples laid the foundation for the love on collaboration. As a rule, serious passions inflame on office parties. Revealing dresses, incendiary dances, competitions of tricky character and alcohol do the part.

If you want to find the half on an office party, you should not abuse alcoholic drinks. In state of intoxication it is possible to do nonsenses which then all collective will tastefully discuss during lunch breaks. Nothing so concerns employees as someone's sudden novel.

Having convinced of mutual sympathy, you should not rush to a love whirlpool with the head. The second negative point of working flirtation: constant presence. Even if you have serious joint plans for the future, think – whether you are ready to see each other 24 hours a day: houses and at work? There can be disputed working issues, jealousy apropos: "who to whom smiled", etc. As a result of the relation will crack, without having managed to be fastened with a marriage oath.

And that who already swore someone the oath to live in a grief and in joy till the end of time, but still seeks to diversify life with intrigues, it is worth thinking on a subject: what not so in the family relations? Flirtation on the party can and pleases with thrills, but comes to an end always with a deplorable image.

Happens that flirtation is not flirtation at all. Well, for example, the person got used to communicate with all without any complexes and barriers, and one of his interlocutors suddenly got a false idea that between them the feeling flashed.

Very often men, for example, treat a revealing dress of colleague female as the erotic background: "It is ready for everything!" If you do not want your actions to be taken for an erotic appeal – put on and behave according to a working situation: communicating, do not interfere in personal space and observe subordination. 

Sometimes the love does not ask whether to the place it, and falls upon the human heads with an avalanche speed. In that case it is necessary to keep the feelings and to keep modesty: public kisses and hot embraces besides will set tongues wagging and will prevent work. 

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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