The little manage to find the half from the first: people meet, leave, create new novels, again disperse, and so occurs until they do not find that with whom are ready to live all life. Therefore, entering the new relations, men often have certain experience. But for the woman the presence of the former beloved, wife or mistress becomes one more reason for jealousy, most often groundless.
Instruction
1. First of all, it is necessary to realize the fact that your darling, as well as at you, has a past, and not to cross out it. In his life prior to a meeting with you there were some events, and part of them led to the fact that he left the former partner. The word "former" indicates that their relations came to the end.
2. You treat the past of the man as to a reality: it was, but now has no value. Do not ask him on former novels, do not extort their detail from friends and relatives: the less you will know about the relations from former, the your life will be quieter. You should not read its e-mail and messages in phone: harmless record can be apprehended with other sense that will provoke a quarrel, a showdown, and as a result – loss of trust to each other.
3. Try to constrain yourself when there is a wish to make a row to jealousy of his former girlfriend. Regular scandals on the fact that remained in the past, can set the man thinking and whether correctly he arrived, having left the former partner and having connected the life with you. Therefore jealousy of being – quite dangerous occupation.
4. If your beloved still communicates with that girl, for example, corresponds on social networks, regularly calls up, meets her in the company of mutual friends, let know that it is unpleasant to you. Ask it to reduce whenever possible contacts with the former passion, you speak frankly, in plain terms and semi-hints.
5. Never compare yourself to former: already the fact that your darling now with you, but not with it, speaks well yours. And the more so do not try to imitate it: also to put on and be painted, copy its manners and gait. Comparisons and imitations can have pernicious effect on your self-assessment and add the mass of unnecessary complexes. Be yourself, your man fell in love with you such what you are, with all merits and demerits.
6. To be self-assured, keep the identity and originality. At the same time, try to self-improve, but not to resemble the former beloved of your man, and only for themselves. Start doing fitness, learn a foreign language, think up to yourself a new hobby – be interesting.
7. Trust the man, you love and respect him, he with you, loves you and values your relations therefore do not poison them with senseless jealousy. Remember that the ex-girlfriend of your darling is his past, and you – the present and the future.