Some women transfer maternal feelings to the men, and, is not noticeable for itself, become for them "mummies". Continuous care of adult "sonny" exhausts, irritates and disturbs the relations. And all because girls incorrectly behave with men.
Instruction
1. You do not treat the husband as the child. Sending children to school, you give them many manuals to the road and whether you check everything they took. The man the adult and does not need parting speeches and reminders any more. If something forgets or will not rather warmly put on - it will be its mistake from which he will get experience.
2. Do not correct it and do not try to make decisions for it. Always consult on it in adoption of the important decision, listen to his opinion and ask council. Show that his opinion is very important for you and you consider it wise. If it does something wrong, do not hurry to make a remark at once and to interfere. Wait, meanwhile he will ask about the help.
3. Leave it free space for friends and hobbies. Do not take all its time, allow to spend days off on soccer or fishing. Do not keep ringing each hour, interrogating where it is. Stop to control his life and each step, he already was above teenage age and does not need supervision.
4. Do not try to solve its problems. Do not look for his socks, phone, keys, let it independently gather for work. Help only if he asks about it. But also in this case do not take the initiative, only prompt and carry out its instructions.
5. Stop to give constantly to it tasks and to remind of them. Divide obligations for the house, agree that everyone carried out the. Do not do its work, do not remind of it to it every five minutes not to cause his irritation. If it is an adult, he will make everything without your constant remarks.
6. Do not doubt its forces, encourage him and do not criticize. You praise for any manifestation of an initiative, own decision or complete business. Show that you trust in its forces and independence that he wanted to prove.