Very often in life of the woman there comes the moment when the man wants to acquaint her with the parents. It should be notedIt should be noted that for any representative of a strong half of mankind, acquaintance of the girl to his parents means that he is ready to transition to the new level of the relations. If to consider this situation from the woman, then here long-awaited expectation of a meeting with relatives of darling are replaced with panic and frustration.
You should not be nervous in this situation. You just have to understand for yourself that nobody will torture and kill you – just you recognize people thanks to whom you met the narrowed.
Often it happens that the girl, having learned about the forthcoming acquaintance to parents of darling, begins to panic and draw hasty conclusions which will negatively affect the end result ( opinion of parents) subsequently.
The most important governed: be yourself and do not adapt to anybody as such behavior is very noticeable, and you, most likely, will get to the core and will understand that you pretend to be. Try to be sincere and open as in the future parents of the guy can become also your parents.
One more important point is the appearance. If you give preference to revealing dresses and go with the French manicure – I do not advise to put on old-fashioned things for mother of your man. Most likely, you it is not aware to what clothes your future mother-in-law, and perhaps gives preference, she wishes to plunge into open dresses. "Golden mean" from the existing clothes types will be an optimal variant: between closed and opened, long and short. But remember that what clothes on you would not be – it has to be clean, stroked and the most important – should not hide your advantages.
During the conversation with parents of your darling, the subject about your parents, to be exact about their social status, income, etc. will be for certain touched. Even if this talk will please you do not try to constrain the emotions. You also should not tell all intimate secrets of your family as parents of your guy in the future will not trust you. When you feel that communication comes to a standstill – switch a conversation to the subjects concerning mother of your man: about its work, hobbies, last, etc.
Do not forget to touch upon a subject which concerns only your guy: ask to tell about what he was when was born when the first teeth were cut through as studied. It is pleasant to all parents to understand that their child is really interesting to you, and immersion in the happy past will perfectly revive a conversation.
Remember the most important, your purpose this evening – will get acquainted with the family of your darling and to try to leave behind good impressions. For all parents it is important to understand that you love their child and it for them the most important.
And in the conclusion It is necessary to tellIt is necessary to tell that you should not refuse to your young man when he wants to acquaint you with his family. At it the thought can creep in that it by and large is indifferent for you.