If the girl at acquaintance to the guy lovely glows and is confused a little, it only adds a charm to her shape. But when the shyness does not allow to communicate adequately with men, it is necessary to take measures, to work on itself.
Instruction
1. Perhaps, you have complex because of the figure, weight, growth. Of course, it is worth trying to change somehow externally, but it is more important to fall in love with himself such what you are: with the freckles bulged by ears and a snub nose. Turn your minuses into pluses, you appreciate what you have. Excessive weight? Great. The good woman has to be much. Red hair? And it the thicket is lucky! Be happy with themselves – and guys will feel your confidence, you will become for them an attractive feature.
2. The shyness arises also from the fact that the girl is afraid to be in a conversation with the man trapped, to get into a mess. That it did not occur, develop the outlook (it in general is useful for the general development, for a self-assessment raising). Learn, than your guy what his hobbies especially is interested. If he adores mathematics, and you in it at all desire can understand nothing – it does not matter. Find other general subjects for a conversation. Others do not interest him? Then why to you such unilateral companion? Make to him the handle without regret.
3. You do not treat too seriously outer side of yours to a talk, appointments. The person facing you – usual, he is subject to complexes too and too tries to understand how looks in your eyes. Try to think of him, but not of your state. It is more than ease, soft self-irony, kind humour – and tension will disappear, knees will not shiver, heart will begin to fight exactly, on all questions there will be answers.
4. The crude mouse which shrank in a corner at a party and will stay unnoticed if it does not show an initiative. Yes, it is difficult, but you have to be solved, rise, approach the one who to you is interesting and nice. Friendly greet, ask, how are you. You can report that very much you hesitate therefore also the voice shivers. But be not got jammed on the person, be not let in details concerning causes and effects of your shyness. The importunity suits nobody. And here the smile, the interested live look will be very opportunely. By all means will smile to you in reply, the mood will increase, from constraint there will be no trace left also.