In the modern world at children there are a lot of toys. They like to play with them and everywhere to scatter. The disorder of the house becomes the whole problem for parents. How to teach the child to clean up toys? From what age it is possible to accustom the kid to an order and purity?
All children different: some sit quietly and play, others constantly run and all scatter. In the house, all have a disorder who have small children. Does not concern children whether toys as it should be lie or are scattered on all room. Apropos about their parents worry. So, how to accustom the child to an order and to teach to clean up toys.
To begin to accustom children to an order it is necessary already from early age. Almost all children in 2-3 years repeat after mother: a broom try to sweep the floor, to climb on a stool and to tinker in water, to wash a plate or a cup. It is necessary not to miss this moment and to allow it to help you. Do not abuse and do not shout. Encourage such form of a game.
For a start it is necessary that the basic principles were observed:
- It is necessary most to observe an order. Children easily study on examples of adults, copy their behavior. If you do not do the cleaning in the house, then and you should not demand from the child of it.
- Tranquility. You approach process of cleaning quietly, be not nervous, do not complain and you do not shout. Do not swear that again toys are scattered, and things not on the places. Thus, cleaning will not cause negative emotions in the child
- Help each other with household chores. If the father helps mother to clean up during week-end, will vacuum a floor, will take out garbage, then and the child will not stand aside, itself will want to participate and help with cleaning. If mother cleans up, and the father watches TV at this time or the child, in particular the boy sits at the computer, then, most likely, will copy behavior of the father.
Education is a joint work of both parents. Therefore have to accustom to an order not only mothers, but also fathers. So, we will pass to the basic rules:
- To remove all superfluous. Hide all toys with which your kid does not play and leave only those which are interesting to him.
- Begin cleaning in the form of a game. For example, who quicker and will collect toys more and will remove them into place. Or present that you are in the fairy tale - you and your kid turned into fantastic heroes: it is more disobedient than elves and wizards, and a toy gnomes who need to be sent all on houses. Issue boxes for toys in the form of lodges, paint and decorate them.
- You praise. Surely you praise the child for the done work: "What good fellow, helped mother, removed all toys". It is pleasant to many children when they are praised and tell others. For example, when the father will come from work, it is possible to praise before the father.
Remember! From the first maybe it will not turn out to accustom the child to an order, but do not give up and have patience.