The one who thinks that the true love will last eternally and family life does not need improvement, is deeply mistaken. The family and love are big fields of activity of both spouses. If to start them, then everything can go wrong way, up to disintegration of the family relations. It is necessary to build love and to improve the family relations throughout all life.
Instruction
1. Estimate the sexual party of your relations. That family life was bright that the husband was not lost in contemplation of other women, it is necessary to diversify intimate life qualitatively. Your health also depends on it, by the way. Refuse once and for all old-fashioned sex on Saturdays. Kindle fire of desires in the husband, awaken in it a volcano of passions, having applied imagination: give party of erotic dances or the Thai massage. If suggest to watch together the movie for adults with an interesting plot, then and then try to repeat the scene which especially impressed you. The man will never lose sexual interest in the woman who surprises him in a bed and is not afraid to experiment.
2. Estimate your relationship. If you notice that communication with the husband comes to an end on discussion of household trifles, it is a serious occasion to begin to improve the relations. Try to spend more time alone or with the children. Look for that pastime which will give pleasure and to you, and the husband.
3. The improved family relations begin with trust - communicate heart-to-heart more, you share with each other problems and progress. Support each other. Each of spouses has to perceive family as certain "back" where there are always a support, protection and understanding.
4. Estimate your financial problems. Often family relations fall because of monetary disputes between spouses. Accurately define who will be responsible for expenses in family. Distribute the family budget in common, consulting with each other. Do not make large purchases without participation of the husband.
5. Distribute household chores. Often all life in family lays down on brittle shoulders of the woman that becomes the reason of her nervousness and discontent. Do not hesitate to ask the husband to help you about the house, you praise him if he shows in it an initiative. Think up the system of bonuses: "You will wash the dishes, and I will prepare your favourite ribs for dinner".
6. Support the quiet atmosphere in family. It is possible to improve the family relations by means of ability to avoid quarrels and scandals. The man will rather seek to come home where he is waited by the tender wife, cheerful children and a hot dinner.