How to apologize

How to apologize

Each person for the life for certain at least once apologized. By itself that it is better to live without quarrels, but so we are suited that we like to offend and take offense sometimes. But after all, we come to a conclusion that we got excited and therefore it is necessary to ask forgiveness. It can pass according to several scenarios.

Instruction

1. Long wheedling of forgiveness with tears, hand-wringing and percussion by the head about a wall approaches when it is possible to call offense trifling. The person pouts, but at the same time understands that the offense will pass soon. Such way of apology approaches more to make laugh offended. With laughter it is always easier to return to the former relations.

2. Do not enclose an envelope with the sum under a pillow of offended at all. It will be much easier and more effectively simple to show care and attention, having made or having bought something pleasant for the offended person. Gifts are loved by any person, however if you angered him so that he refuses to accept your gifts or the help, do not despair. The fact that you already took a step to reconciliation to you will be set off. It is much better if you present some thing, than you will sit in a corner and to stay idle. It is quite probable that your gift will be accepted after all. The main thing is to show a little patience.

3. Write the letter, well or just to SMS. In writing apologies are given far easier, in comparison with oral, in the letter we can try and prepare the speech. Your message will be or be read several times (that it is good to eat), or just removed. Therefore after written apology has to follow oral to prove your sincerity.

4. Just approach the person offended by you and tell banal "Forgive", recognize that you were wrong, quietly listen to all reproaches, recognize correctness of the interlocutor and try to improve in the future.

5. Not this word is easily pledged to everyone "Forgive", especially if it needs to be spoken close and to darling. But you can just show that you regret - sighs, sad views, silence. To people who are not able to apologize it is the heaviest - they strongly are upset and reproach themselves with the fact that they made. Happens that offended party begins to calm such people.

6. Besides, you can pretend to be offended. And here fight of characters will begin, more gentle person will concede in it. However fight can last also for years. The most important is to want reconciliation, then proper words will be.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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