Sometimes, that even dear people for a long time quarrel what to speak about the relations with girlfriends. If after all it occurred, and you understand that you were wrong that the person seriously took offense at you, and there is no wish to lose him at all, then gather by forces and ask forgiveness. You clean with it the soul from cargo of the made mistake and show to the girlfriend that you sincerely are sorry about the incident. But how to ask forgiveness for the girlfriend if she does not make with you contact and does not want to meet and speak? Try to apologize in writing.
Instruction
1. Such way to apologize and ask forgiveness will facilitate to you recognition of the mistake, it is much more difficult to make it, looking to the person in eyes and expecting that you can be pushed away any minute. If you decided to write, then you should not use the computer, such intimate letters are written exclusively manually.
2. Begin the letter with a friendly greeting, find sincere, warm tone for statement of the thoughts. Try to explain shortly and softly to the person, than your behavior, words, feelings and acts at the time of the quarrel was caused. It is not necessary to justify itself and be protected too zealously, behind it your addressee can see not repentance and a regret, but desire to justify the act with the developed circumstances and confidence in the correctness.
3. You say less about what already happened, and it is more how to you to find mutual understanding and to improve future relations. You have to remember that that offense which you caused to the girlfriend did not pass yet and time is necessary in order that passions settled. Your letter with sincere changes is capable to reduce this time and to give an opportunity for reconciliation.
4. After the letter is written, re-read it once again, trying to estimate its maintenance by eyes of that person whom you offended, analyze those emotions which each phrase can cause. Who as not you know the girlfriend therefore delete those words which can wound her again or to be incorrectly interpreted.
5. Even if you do not receive the reply to the letter at once, the fact that you showed to the girlfriend the repentance and a regret and took the first step on the way of reconciliation is important.