Unfortunately, people can die and in the prime of life. It is huge loss and a grief for relatives. If your first wife died, you need to gain strength and to continue to live further.
Instruction
1. Experiences of a grief can be divided into four stages. In the beginning the person feels shock. He can not notice people around, not remember whether he when the last time fell down ate. Such stage lasts several days. Then there comes the denial phase. Grieving refuses to reconcile to the fact that his wife died. The spouse can seem to the widower on streets, come in a dream. Then there comes the stage of experience of a grief. It lasts usually half a year-year then at last there comes the simplification phase. These four phases can sometimes happen to the person several times. Kind of badly to you was, you remember that as a result your experiences will take place, and there will come the simplification stage.
2. Get rid of false sense of guilt. Perhaps, you cannot find any peace because did not send the spouse to the doctor earlier, did not meet her from guests, allowed it to drive the car that ill-fated day. However not you are guilty of the happened tragedy, and circumstances which developed in such a way that your wife died. Reconcile to it and dare to recognize that nobody is guilty of the death of your darling.
3. Kind of you loved the died wife, you will not become happy, remaining lonely and constantly grieving for her. However you should not perceive the relations with other girl as medicine for melancholy – so you no you will adjust private life, do not muffle a grief. It is better to begin the new romantic relations when you feel that you are ready to let in the new woman heart.
4. Tell the darling that your first wife died. Certainly, you should not do it on the first appointment, however if you feel that your relations are expensive to both of you, it is necessary to report about such important fact of the biography. The death of the spouse left a mark on your character, perhaps, you had some hidden fears about it. Together with the understanding woman nearby you will be able to overcome all troubles and again to construct happy family.