The family was left by the husband. Of course, this event breaks habitual tenor of life. There is a huge number of emotions and feelings which can have significant effect on your further actions.
Instruction
1. Calm down and sort out the feelings. The choice anyway will remain only for you. Regardless of the fact that your husband and as people around treated it made, only you should decide what to do next.
2. Answer yourself questions: "What suited you in joint marriage what was not pleasant to you in the relations with the husband whether you want to continue joint life, whether you love it?"
3. Remember and analyze the behavior. Then draw a conclusion or in favor of continuation of the family relations, or in favor of their final gap.
4. Surely esteem and reflect on a subject whether you will be able to forgive treason. Despite words and decisions, men and women often do not forgive such mistakes, only aggravating contradictions and turning further life into the most boring pastime, and is frequent for the sake of children.
5. Create to children if they are, the comfortable atmosphere. Do not try to hide from them the incident, but also do not make them by "a vest for tears". Caring for children, you do not avoid decision-making. Finally health and wellbeing of all your family depends on it.
6. If you decided to return the husband, at once begin to act. Specify at him and analyze all reasons which were the cornerstone of leaving. Try to commensurate your conclusions with the vital outlook, the purposes and a spirit. Most likely, in further communication with the husband you should seize art of a compromise.
7. If you made the decision to begin new life without it, forgive it and thank for the happy moments of your marriage. Issue a divorce and look at life with optimism and a smile.
8. Consider the situation not as a destiny penalty and as the good opportunities for achievement of goals given by it and finding of full-fledged and happy life.