Situations when the husband for any of several reasons leaves to other woman, are almost always extremely painful for the wife. The woman lost, devastated, deafened by awful news does not know what to do to her and often decides on extreme measures.
1. At first calm down and think from what you took that the husband leaves to other woman. If he directly speaks about it, remember whether he tried to blackmail you earlier. Some people can threaten with a divorce, suicide, treason to achieve the. If your husband has similar habits – perhaps, it is a high time to visit the psychologist or to try to discuss the arisen situation with the man and to find a way out. The competitor about whom he speaks openly can be defeated. But be afraid of the competitor about whom he is silent: if you learn about intention of the husband to leave family from friends, relatives and acquaintances, the situation can be very serious.
2. Think whether you want to remain with the husband or are ready to release it. Not each woman is capable to forgive treason and to trust in the traitor therefore if the husband's act is unacceptable for you, and you understand that you will never be able to be happy with this person, just release it. Open heart for new love and move off in searches of new happiness. That it was easier to endure family breakdown, try to change: update clothes, cardinally replace a hairstyle, dye a hair, practice yoga, belly dances, swimming or any other occupation, useful to a body and soul.
3. If you want to remain with the husband, and he knows that you it is aware of his treason, try to discuss with him the arisen situation quietly. The joint visit to the family psychologist will be in that case very useful. If the husband is sure that you do not know about his intentions, then just try to change a house situation. If the man did not leave yet, there is a chance that it fluctuates, and you still have an opportunity to force it to change the mind. Too sharp changes will be inappropriate – the man not the blind person and for certain everything will understand. Begin with small: new hairstyle, tasty dinner, unostentatious care, total absence of quarrels and scandals. Good options – to persuade the husband to have supper at restaurant or to have the room in hotel for day. If there is an opportunity, it is recommended to go to a travel at least for a while to change scenery.