Unfortunately, some people manipulate people around and use them in own purposes. If you got under influence of the dishonest individual, it is necessary to change a situation urgently.
Instruction
1. Take the first step on disposal of the manipulator: realize that you are used. Think whether to you it is always comfortable with this person. Whether you feel that you do something against own will if only to please this individual. If there is it that after the conversation with the person at you always sharply changes opinion on opposite, perhaps, it deliberately affects your consciousness. As soon as you understand that you dance to the tune of others, it will be easier for you to be exempted from oppression.
2. Estimate your relations with the person whom you suspect of manipulation. Think whether in an equal measure you invest each other. Sometimes in couple, between friends, colleagues or just good friends there is a situation when one person only takes away and demands, but gives nothing. Perhaps, it occurs subconsciously, but actually he uses other individual for the sake of satisfaction of own requirements. If such parasitizing element appeared in your environment, it is not necessary to let nothing to it.
3. Understand that you fell a victim not casually. Manipulators, as a rule, choose the easily inspired, naive people and those who have problems with a self-assessment. It is easy to operate opinion, thinking, actions of such individuals. Therefore if you are used, your fault in it is too. Perhaps, you are insufficiently sure of yourself, are afraid to advocate own interests, do not possess a share of healthy egoism, too seriously treat others opinion and do not appreciate own point of view on advantage. Think what your weakness consists in, and carry out work on yourself to close this gap.
4. When you already understood that you are used, it was necessary only to find forces and to fight back the manipulator. The main thing, you keep quietly and surely. Listen to the hidden instructions of the individual and tell that you will think over his words at a leisure. Or begin to specify why he has such point of view on the matter from where from took these data. Also you can just avoid or sharply limit communication with the manipulator.
5. If you are used by the loved one, just stop to drag everything on yourself. Do not give to the individual against own that he wants. Stop being the irreplaceable person. You should not care too for the manipulator and to solve all its problems. Let he will see to what consequences lead its actions, and realizes all responsibility for own life.