Boys emotionally ripen after girls. Little girls schoolgirls write love verses and dream of appointments, and their peers drive with a ball on the waste ground at this time and are cut on a prefix. Therefore girls also fall in love with guys is more senior, they seem to them more adult, clever and serious.
Councils for girls are younger than 16 years
If to you 13, and your elect is more than 5 years more senior – better to leave the idea about the romantic relations at once. At teenage age even two years seem an enormous difference. He just will not see in you the girl, for him you will be a child. And here if an age difference 3-4 years, it is possible to try to pay its attention to himself.
First, learn, than he is fond. Learn football rules and names of players of his favorite team if he is a football fan. Try to learn to play its favourite computer game. Take an interest to what music he listens. Generally, make so that it was interesting to him with you. The main thing not to be overzealous. To agree with any word and just it is not necessary to assent. Guys like girls with own opinion.
Secondly, do not try to look more senior than the age. the 15-year-old girl with a bright make-up looks silly and vulgarly. Do not try to show "maturity" by means of cigarettes, beer and reasonings on sex. Thirdly, be not imposed. It is not necessary to fill up the guy with messages and to attack phone calls with declarations of love. You should not watch for him at an entrance, and then to pretend as if accidentally by passed. In such a way you will only win a title of "the young child who runs for Vasya".
Councils for girls 16+
If you were not 18 years old yet, the guy who is more senior than you can refuse to meet you on quite natural causes. Still nobody cancelled criminal liability for seduction of minors. Therefore hundred times think before beginning the relations with the adult guy. Try to join a circle of his communication. Through mutual friends learn where it most often happens. And then arrange a "casual" meeting at a concert of his favorite band or in the gym where it is engaged. Approach, to greet the first if he did not notice you. It is necessary to show an initiative, to cause his interest. You will dart languishing looks from round the corner – in this corner and you will remain. Learn to flirt. Be womanly. Show it that you are not a little girl who plays dolls. To be adult – does not mean to make up lips with red lipstick and wears jackets with a deep decollete even if to you is what there to show. If you want to attract serious interest, it is better to show intelligence and desire to develop. Also it is not necessary to lie about the age. The lie will be opened sooner or later, and the unpleasant deposit will remain. Any man likes to feel clever and strong. Ask him for suggestions, as more skilled person. Express admiration of his talents and abilities. Do not try to emphasize an age difference if you do not want it to concern you as to the younger little sister. Be not overzealous with a game in "lolita". The guy is could and flattered by attention of the young girl, but he will hardly want to suffer children's whims long.