It is often difficult to girls to achieve boyish attention. For the sake of it they can "go all out" and make mad acts. The result more often is opposite – derision and contempt. In fact to be popular with an opposite sex, it is possible to try to obtain attention easily, with success and not to the detriment of himself.
Instruction
1. Be noticeable, active and sociable. Sincerely be interested in other people, boys or girls, adults or children – all the same. Help them within the opportunities. But keep balance not to be persuasive.
2. Develop in yourself optimism, goodwill and the most important – sense of humour. Positive thinking attracts people. The ability with humour to treat itself and to different situations facilitates life and communication with others.
3. Be not afraid to be yourself, to be bright, to show emotions. But never show the weaknesses in the company, in the class. It is necessary to be open moderately, to use it where it plays on you and yet excessively be not fond of a game
4. Pay attention and to the female qualities: to femininity, charm, ukhozhennost. And here use the golden rule of a measure. You have to be ideal completely, but nobody has to know what it costed you. Nobody has to see you often in front of the mirror.
5. Cultivate in yourself the highlight. Will help to find and develop it in themselves your hobbies, hobbies which give pleasure only for you. Never open all secrets about yourself, leaving some part of the life of the secret covered with an aura.
6. Develop also yourself, the outlook. Successfully to communicate with other people, you need to be aware of events, beginning from your educational institution and finishing with the city. Be interested not only fashion or stars, but also and sport, achievements of boys from your environment. Only do not go too far and you do not pass into ranks of the most famous gossips.
7. Be self-assured. The charisma is given to a thicket from the birth, and here the will power and confidence are cultivated. You find in yourself advantages, develop them. You learn to be persistent and to achieve the objectives. Play sports not to feel absolutely defenseless. But also you remember that "strength of the woman in her weakness" therefore avoid to show the superiority if you have it.
8. Remember that you girl, girl, woman. Protect as well the honor, advantage. Care for that your acts were not thoughtless or ambiguous. Do not do much harm to yourself that the popularity suddenly did not become ill fame. You love and respect first of all yourself.