If you are not able to make advances to men, to flirt, tempt and it creates feeling of dissatisfaction, the diffidence – to you should learn art of the pickup. Be not afraid and study several rules of seducing, and over time you will be able to become the true guru of the pickup and to find the half.
Instruction
1. Pay attention to the appearance. Men long hair (even if they at the same time not really dense and magnificent) attract, long earrings, painted lips. Whatever you had a breast – try correctly its tax. You watch the bearing, you hold a back a straight line, shoulders – straightened, you carry a breast it is proud.
2. Try to master cat's grace, move smoothly and surely. The sign language, level of pheromones, desire to be pleasant is very important. Level of pheromones can be increased by means of the stimulating drinks – tea, coffee, small doses of alcohol. Also chocolate and physical exercises helps. Besides, you can imagine the person attracting you it is sexual – the level of pheromones in your blood will increase.
3. At a conversation with the man consider his psychology, the status, features of behavior. Choose subjects for a conversation according to your plans. For example, if you in general are ready for the long relations, do not speak about problems with militia, about the use of drugs or alcohol. Never mention short-term communications – all your relations were long and without unfaithfulness of you.
4. Show that you are hozyaystvenna and are thrifty (even if it not so), do not tell salty jokes and do not encourage such behavior at the man. You can feed the man – it submits many. Even the simple question of whether he managed to have a bite, will already work.
5. There is no universal way to subdue the man therefore improvise. You can be helped by a stare, background factors (for example, fate, but not jazz as music of an appointment is recommended), a small dose of alcohol, laughter and jokes. Try not to interfere on its territory if you feel internal protection. At the same time also the return option – physical approach to the man can work if it keeps uncertainly.
6. Remember that in the female pickup the main thing is not to tempt and carry away in a bed (such pressure frightens some men, anyway, to keep the relations after sex on the first appointment very difficult). The main thing is to approach, come into contact emotionally.