If you want to be at the same time the ideal wife to the husband and good mother for your child, you need to make efforts. Try, and you will acquire skill to combine these qualities, important for family life.
Instruction
1. Construct the relations with the husband on trust. It is guarantee of long, happy marriage. To learn more about each other and to strengthen your union, few times in a week discuss the latest events in your life. You can diversify your evenings of revelations with walks or visits of cafe.
2. Do not allow life to destroy your marriage. If you attach to household chores too great value and do not want to understand the man who on the day off has to have a rest, it can negatively affect your relations. Be able to reach compromise and to distribute duties. Talk to the husband. For certain there is such housework which he agrees to carry out, for example, to take out garbage, to go to shop, to vacuum or to repair something.
3. Do not force the soulmate to what he does not want to do or discuss. You irritate with it the man and push away from yourself. If with any question you are helped better by mother or the girlfriend, address them. In case your husband can solve a problem, describe to him a situation and ask to help. Perhaps, you even should not ask, having estimated your relation in it, the man will make everything.
4. You treat the child as the personality. Do not talk to him haughtily and do not belittle its problems. Perhaps, to your son or the daughter it is heavier, than to you, they do not have yet that force which you have. Besides, they are less adapted for life.
5. Trust the child, and, seeing it, he will do everything possible to justify your confidence. If you punish him, explain for what. Even if you become angry, let know that you love him. Try to react to whims quietly. The child has to know that it "no" and "is impossible". Surely you watch with him instructive movies and read useful books. Discuss behavior of heroes.
6. Be able to distribute the attention and love between the spouse and children. That you were enough for all, you see off time together more. Go the whole family to walks to the park, go on a visit to the grandmother, go to ride from the mountain, you go to children's theater, play, together tide up or prepare something tasty.
7. Encourage your children and the husband. The fair praise acts on all equally structurally. Do not forget to note achievements of your relatives, show that you are proud of them. If you want to make a critical remark, then let it will be well reasonable.
8. Find time for the relatives, but also do not forget about yourself. The woman who gives everything to others sacrifices herself, the youth and interests only for the sake of the husband and children, causes pity and sense of guilt in members of her family. Yes, your family takes the important place in your life, but it is yet not all life.