If you were left by the guy, do not hurry to be upset, he can wish to restore the relations. Such behavior is characteristic of young people, especially if you met long time. And your task is to help it to realize the mistake. For this purpose it is necessary to behave correctly and at all not to make quarrels and scandals.
Instruction
1. You do not hurry to throw it with messages and offers to begin all over again. Some time that the guy realized that to it without you is unusual and bad will be required. Right after parting stop communication with it for some time. You should not meet and call up to it at least a few weeks.
2. Use this time to change themselves to the best. For example, play sports, yoga or fitness to make the figure more attractive. Change style in clothes that it could see you from the new party. Your purpose is to surprise it at the next meeting.
3. But changes have to concern not only your appearance. Try to change also the character. For certain, something was not pleasant to the guy in your behavior or acts. Use this temporary respite to become more ideal. Of course, you should not go on radical steps for the sake of it and to correct in yourself what is pleasant to you. In any situation it is necessary to remain, first of all, the personality, but not to be someone's shadow.
4. In 2-4 weeks you have to meet the former. I will meet best all to make unplanned. For example, to visit those places where he most often is. But you should not turn constantly on one place, he can guess your purpose. And then the meeting will hardly take place successfully.
5. During the meeting do not sort out the relations, do not quarrel with it. Chat about trifles, ask how it has affairs. You should not remember also your former feelings. The purpose of a meeting is to remind of itself and to show, how strongly you changed. In several days such "unexpected" meeting should be repeated. And at it to remove a conversation about already planned appointment.
6. The next meeting at all not necessarily has to be romantic. If the guy himself did not suggest you to meet, then think up the reason for which he has to see you once again. For example, it is possible to ask to descend with you on shops. But it only if such pastime is pleasant to the young man. Still you can ask to repair something in the house or to help to deal with the computer. Ask even if in the house you are all right, and you understand the computer better it. Break the lock, a hook, tear off a parquet, but create an ideal situation for your meeting.
7. At the next appointment it is already possible to begin to remember the past. Of course, the emphasis needs to be placed on the pleasant moments. Only do not cry and do not quarrel with it, so you never renew the relation. Be tender and appeasable, it you will quicker win the man. Do not show the grief, he should not understand that he is necessary to you too strongly. If the meeting takes place at your place, do not forget to treat the guy with something tasty, better prepared by your caring hands.
8. Such planned meetings has to be as much as possible. As well as lovely, pleasant communication. Only caress and attention you will be able to return the former relations.