For many girls the acquaintance and communication with parents of the guy becomes a big problem. The young person so wants to make a good impression and to be pleasant to the closest people of the young man that she begins to behave unnaturally, and it does not promote establishing good relations at all.
Instruction
1. Try to look good always. Select accurate not provocative clothes for a meeting with relatives of the young man. Refuse for a while short skirts, the fitting undershirts, a strong perfume aroma. Cover the tattoos and piercing better. You do not smoke and be not fond of alcohol in the presence of relatives of your guy.
2. Be kind, polite. You watch that as as you speak. Do not use slang expressions, especially a mat. You should not tell parents intimate details of your relations. Communicate on neutral subjects, do not raise the political, religious, racial affairs at all. Do not argue and do not interrupt. Refrain from estimated remarks concerning an interior of the house of parents, their family way, hobbies. Try to listen more, than to speak.
3. Address parents of your friend on a name and a middle name, and the young man by name. Refuse tender expressions, such as, for example, "lassie" or "cat", at their presence. Do not show openly before parents the feelings to each other. Leave strong embraces and kisses for an intimate situation. But do not resist if your friend embraces you or will take by hand.
4. Help parents when it is appropriate. Suggest to cook, for example, food, to set the table, to wash the dishes. But be not persuasive and do not insist if your help is not necessary. Remember that in the house of parents of your guy you the guest. Never compete with mother of the elect in any area.
5. Calm down if from the first days at you it did not turn out to win arrangement of his parents. The most important that you are pleasant to their son. And do not pay attention to manifestations of aggression and discontent, remain always are polite and tactful. Do not criticize parents, especially in the presence of the young man.