Sometimes close people need the special help. Let's consider a case when the person suffers crash in business, work, sport or other fields of activity. It already made so many attempts, nothing is impossible. He does not believe in success, ceased to fight. Life goes under a bias. Similar cases meet at any age when the person endures crisis because of failures. Let's consider how to believe in the person and to inspire him on continuing efforts.
Instruction
1. Find stories of great losers who achieved great progress. Let's look at life of Stephen Scott, the author of the book ""Notebook of the Millionaire"". For the first 5 years of work he replaced 7 places of work and own business tried to begin 2 times. On average it kept at one enterprise of 5.5 months. And 2 times fired him. Once at dismissal the chief told that Stephen will never achieve success in marketing. And so there passed 5 years of life. What would you tell about such person? Would you have a faith in him? Further he based successful business, in the sphere of marketing and advertizing, having risen to a profit of millions of dollars. There is a lot of such people, study their books.
2. Write the fantastic story. Take a beautiful notebook and become the house writer. Dream on what successful will become the person about whom you worry. Many fantasts predicted future, so it turned out. You will be able to convince yourself personally of success. It will help to give the real support to other person.
3. Fix small victories. In hard times the temptation appears to place emphasis on failures. Arrive on the contrary. The person already in a hole why to remind of it. Notice better attempts to be chosen. Rose on a bottom of a hole and lifted up the head up - perfectly. Kovyrnul the firm earth to make a step up - the good fellow. Small victories develop into great ideas and strengthen will.
4. Try to make what the person is able to do. Let's say he is loser football player. And you to a popinayta a ball as he is able. Most likely, at you nothing will turn out. Admire his skills. Let them be not enough for great success, but it so far promoted. And if to continue? It is heavier to you to begin such business, you yet at everyone is able nothingeveryone is able nothing. You appreciate the way passed by the person.