The ability to find a common language with different people can learn if desired. It is necessary to begin to think in a special way, to be able to find the general subjects on which it is possible to communicate, feel mood of other people easy.
- Own way from isolation to active living position
- Positive type of thinking
- The created vital reference points
- Acquaintances to people of different nationalities and religions
- Ability to feel people from first minutes of acquaintance
1. The ability to find a common language with people who as it seems at first sight, have nothing in common with us is given some by nature, and others can learn this skill, important for life. Agree that even our best friends once seemed to us to a degree strangers. For a start accept thinking type which allows to find easier a common language with other people. Be ready to focus on others, to be interested in their thoughts, needs, hopes, pleasures, grieves, etc. To put it briefly, it is necessary to leave the world, to be open and friendly.
2. Be ready to take the lead. It is necessary not to be afraid to meet people the first. Do not wait that some conditions will be created in order that it occurred, and be able to create them. Pay attention as easily and easy children get acquainted with each other.
3. If you want to find a common language with the stranger, it is necessary to learn to balance between ability to listen to other person and own openness. Introduce the ideas, but at the same time be able to hear other person.
4. You learn to see kind in any person. You do not look at his skin color, the social status, etc. The valid treasure in any person is a possession of self-respect and high moral qualities.
5. You speak with the person on subjects which can unite you. So, people are often united by past experience or, on the contrary, dreams, a view of the future. Besides, it is always possible to speak about sport, the hometown, language, the country, culture, customs, etc. of People also often work, a hobby, mutual friends unites.
6. In any situation remain self-assured, quiet, open. Be sure that any person will be glad to get acquainted with you. All people different, but also this difference sometimes can unite. You learn to feel other people, to contact them at the emotional level. It will also help you to be sure of any situation.