Each woman dreams to make the real man of the son. And at the same time, each woman is at heart sure that one and all men around her are far from an ideal if not to tell bigger. Nestykovochka turns out. And mothers of each of these men dreamed to make them "presents". In what business and how it is correct to bring up boys?
Instruction
1. First, understanding of the real man at each woman a miscellaneous. Someone loves strong, brave and fearless men, others appreciate good manners and nobility, the third – sharp mind, the fourth – sense of humour and ability to enjoy life. Think what qualities you want to see in the son as far as they will make him happy in the future and will help to achieve success.
2. Having decided on qualities which you want to grow, think of means of achievement of the purpose. Just like that, from there is no place, the courage and good manners do not appear. You have to gradually, day after day, and year after year, to strengthen them in the boy. Understand that requests to become such and such are absolutely useless.
3. To bring up the child is the most effective on examples from life. If you want to make the boy kind, softly and unostentatiously pay his attention to all kind acts which are made by people close to you. Let the child see kindness around, even in trifles: as the neighbor cares for the favourite dog as mother helps the kid to take the first steps as the attentive grandson supports the aged grandfather. People around you do a set of acts, and everyone discloses some line of their characters. Draw the attention of the child to those acts which are dictated by high qualities of the person.
4. Will help to bring up the son to you and books. Reading to the boy of the book about noble knights, wise thinkers, brave travelers, you offer the son an example for imitation. Having admired the hero of the favourite book, the kid will try to imitate him in everything. The same concerns also animated films. Pay huge attention to what your kid watches on TV to avoid bad influence. Many modern animated films make children cruel, selfish, greedy.
5. Generously encourage good acts which are made by your sonny even if they are insignificant. Having received a praise for good business, the boy will understand that it is useful to do good deeds not only, but also it is very pleasant. Tell relatives about kind acts of your boy at his presence, he will be proud of himself and to rejoice. Of course, and it is not necessary to overpraise, but it is impossible to leave a good deed without praise.
6. And, perhaps, the most important – become the best example for the child. So, rude people will never impart to the children of good manners, unscrupulous people will not make children accurate. Your kid gradually will become reflection you. Let him see that his parents good people who love it also are ready to support in all him. In harmonious family of the boy the real man will surely grow up!