One of the most difficult life situations is a parting with darling. When the relations of people come to an end, one of them becomes the initiator of a gap, and another - the victim of circumstances.
Instruction
1. After parting about the soulmate some guys assure themselves that time heals. They senselessly hope that they several months of their feeling later after all will cool down. However very silly to believe that tomorrow will be happier previous. In order that it occurred, it is necessary most to make considerable efforts on improvement of the future.
2. It is not necessary to try to heat the bitterness and pain in alcoholic drinks. Alcohol will not help you to stop loving the person who threw you. Yes, it will temporarily obscure your mind, but this action will be deceptive and only, on the contrary, will aggravate feeling of loneliness and own uselessness.
3. Think up to yourself new hobby. Be engaged in in what you could not be engaged together with the soulmate. Begin to play sports: physical activities are capable to help you to get rid of a stress and to remove stress. The learning of foreign languages, passing of a new computer game - will be suitable for you any hobby which will be able to distract you from burdensome thoughts.
4. Most likely, after break in relations you continue to keep in yourself offense at your soulmate. Save yourself from negative emotions. Try to wish mentally to the person good luck and to release it. Understand that without you it will be better for it. In order that it became easier for you, you can be uttered, only choose as the interlocutor of the reliable and faithful person who will tell nobody about your experiences.
5. You spend more time with the acquaintances and friends who will be able not only to support you, but also will help to forget about sad memoirs. You go for a walk, visit entertaining institutions. Only do not try to find there replacement to the person who threw you. Of course, acquaintances to other girls will temporarily distract you, here only the serious relations from this will hardly turn out. Most likely, if after parting from former there passes not enough time, in your new relations with women there will be no mutual understanding. You will subconsciously compare each woman to your former soulmate and will begin to look for shortcomings of the new passion.
6. Some guys, meeting the girls, in vain idealize them. Try to look at being on the other hand. For certain in its character there was a set of various negative qualities which all the same would lead sooner or later to your parting.