Often rest on the solar beach abroad without husband comes to an end with holiday romance. How to keep marriage and to forgive itself if you regret?
Practically any treason happens because of of both sexes. The caress, passion can not be enough for the woman in the relations with the husband, she does not feel attractive and young. After all, having been disappointed in the spouse, one goes to a long-awaited holiday on the solar sea, without it. She begins holiday romance, and she changes the husband. The repentant women are visited by fear and horror, shame and pain. She betrayed the person who is so faithful to it. How now to look to him in the face?
How to forgive itself and to forget about treason?
Often the woman tries to be uttered to the girlfriends or close relatives. It cannot be done. Information on your holiday romance can emerge accidentally (or it is not accidental) in a conversation in the presence of your spouse. Also it is not necessary to admit treason to the husband, hoping for his forgiveness. For the man - it is a huge trauma, to learn that the wife betrayed him and preferred another. The man can keep offense within several years, at each quarrel remembering your mistake. Perhaps, you facilitate to yourself soul, having told about treason to the husband, but only will spoil with him the relations.
To forgive itself (it is the first step to forget the novel), it is necessary to analyze that pushed you to treason that was not enough for you in marriage. To reconcile to the fact that the mistake is already made, to try to correct the relations with the husband, adding to them missing elements, whether it be the romantic, flirtation or passion. Begin the first, and your man will take up an initiative. Arrange a romantic dinner, buy new lace lingerie. Please the spouse. Try to write on paper all story of holiday romance from beginning to end, with all details, so many time how many you will consider necessary, you will not lighten yet, and burn all these used-up sheets of paper. Burning the manuscripts, you release a story about holiday romance in the past. It helped to understand that you need to complement the relations with your man with new paints. The main thing, it is necessary to forgive himself. The best medicine - time. Do not change darlings!