Often over time the novelty of the relations becomes dull, the former romanticism and passion disappear and, unfortunately, sometimes there passes the love. So to do if the girl with whom you long time were in the relations decided to leave, and you still love her?
For a start sort out why the girl leaves you right now. Whether there was between you a large quarrel before parting or nothing portended a trouble? Whether there was at the girl a new young man or she leaves "in anywhere"? Your further actions will also depend on answers to these questions. If before parting you to the girl had a quarrel, a conclusion is in this situation obvious – reconcile. Find for darling and sincerely apologize to her. Tell her about the feelings, admit that would not like to lose it. The bouquet of flowers can add sincerity to your words.
If everything occurred spontaneously, and the girl leaves for the unclear reason for you, think how your meetings at the very beginning of the relations looked and that disappeared. Perhaps, darling there is not enough romanticism, courtings, bright emotions. How long did you invite your girl to an appointment, pleased her with gifts, did together something mad? Behave as and in the first week of your acquaintance, surprise the partner, please her. Then your half will look at you other eyes.
Happens that girls speak about parting when they want to check the young man. Perhaps, it seems to it that you have to it no feelings any more, you prefer to meet friends or, lying on a sofa, to watch football. Try to talk frankly to the girl, tell her about what you feel to it. If you had more successful rival who takes away your love, you have two exits. Certainly, you can defame the new gentleman of your girl, having proved that you cleverer, stronger, more beautiful and it is better than him in all respects. But it in fauna the female leaves with a male, won a fight. It is not obligatory that the girl and after it will choose you. But think whether that which already tried to leave to another is necessary to you. If the girl really stopped loving and does not intend to remain with you any more, you need only to accept it and to release her. You the loving person and, despite everything, wish well to her.