"Not in money happiness", "To live not with wealth, and with the person". These proverbs well characterize family life. Of course, the material welfare is very important, but after all on the first place there has to be a moral factor, even the wealthy family cannot be considered as happy if in it there is no love, understanding, warm-heartedness. How to improve moral atmosphere in family?
Instruction
1. Alas, quite often spouses, even loving each other, cannot find a common language, resort to reproaches, scandals. As a result, business can reach a divorce. Do not try to change the partner! Try to see in him advantages, but not shortcomings.
2. During the prewedding period of courtings future spouses look at each other through "pink glasses". It is clear and natural. Shortcomings of future partner in life either are not noticed, or treat them indulgently: like, after the wedding we will re-educate! When family everyday life begins, gradually reaches young spouses that the partner not a so innocent angel, but all attempts of re-education cause boomerang effect. And some young couples break up, without having lived together even years.
3. Remember that you married the adult created person who has tastes, habits, views. He not the small child that to re-educate him. Do not impose him own tastes and habits. Try to be more tolerant to its shortcomings, to see first of all advantages. Avoid conflict situations, always look for a reasonable compromise. Observance of such simple rules will improve moral atmosphere in family at once.
4. It is more than kind words, praises, it is less than reproaches and claims. "The kind word and a cat is pleasant". Many for certain heard this phrase, but not everyone uses kind words, communicating with the closest people. And it is vain! The dissatisfied, irritable tone, reproaches and claims (even fair) cause instinctive response in 99% of people. Even if the person himself understands that he is guilty, arrived not in the best way, he will look for justifications or will perform with counter reproaches, charges. To moral atmosphere in family it will only damage.
5. Try to praise more often the partner, to give him compliments (for certain will be for what). Emphasize that you appreciate his care of family, its help with the house. And if you have reasonable claims, state them tactfully, without resorting to accusatory tone, causticity, especially to insults.
6. Do not assume that jammed life. Quite often moral atmosphere in families worsens because of monotony, boredom when life is limited to a house framework. Even if you very much love the family nest, do not sit eternally within four walls. Visit the museums, concerts, exhibitions, go whenever possible to trips. New impressions will do family only good.