You have a wonderful guy: clever, provided, cheerful and strong. If not couple of its terrible habits, then it would be ideal. Do you want to change slightly the darling, but are afraid that it is useless? Say that adults do not change. Of course, nobody managed to turn the mobile swarty and well-fed merry fellow into the slender pensive blonde still. But to disaccustom the big boy it can champ at meal time to you quite.
Instruction
1. Begin alterations with yourself. It is possible to sit down and to talk quietly about what habits enrage you in each other. Do you consider what be at you all right, and your darling delighted with everything, what are you doing? Especially as it is it, but you get not your socks from the most unexpected places with enviable regularity. And you after all ask. You will hear a lot of interesting. For example, how he is enraged by your lovely habit to leave a spoon in a circle when you have tea. Agree that you will improve together. It does not scatter socks on all apartment, you have tea beautifully.
2. Do everything gradually. If your darling adores having a sleep on days off, at school always shirked physical education and considers all athletes narrow-minded and stupid, then it is not necessary to buy to him the subscription in the coolest fitness club or to give a snowboard for birthday. Begin with small, for example, from walks in the evenings. Walking is the most available sport. It is possible to talk about anything and to reel up more and more kilometers every day. Accidentally mention the famous athletes who became famous in a field of policy or science. Nobody will call Schwarzenegger, Khorkina or Klitschko narrow-minded. Persuade darling to lead you to the pool as one it is terrible, boring for you, and there is a wish to stay together. Also take for it swimming trunks and a hat. Act accurately and slowly. At first one kickshaw, through some time another. Even the biggest elephant can be eaten on a piece.
3. You praise the guy. For what? Really you meet the person whom even to praise there is nothing? Especially you praise for what he does extremely seldom, and you wish it became a habit. Darling made a dinner for the first time for the seventh anniversary of your meeting? You should not sob with happiness and for weeks to sit on phone, describing heroism of the guy to girlfriends and relatives. But surely express admiration of what careful and romantic man at you, as you were delighted at the sight of this dinner. Yes if it did it to a thicket, you for the sake of it on everything it would be necessary went, would even refuse a new fur coat this year! The dinner after work is more important, the truth?
4. Learn more about the guy. You know why he has such disgust for strict suits or why he hates dogs? On everything there are reasons. If you find out that in the childhood he was frightened by a neighbour's dog, then can and you should not stamp legs and to shout that he does not love you at all if he does not want to present to you a Labrador. You descend together to the girlfriend who has a dog. Look together at transfer about pets. Persuade to visit nursery one time for the sake of you. If you know the behavior reasons, or any addictions, then it is much easier to change them. And maybe, you will understand, as it is possible to change. Your guy already the best, time you fell in love with it.