Some girls complain: it is just impossible to talk to guys! You try to learn frankly, its intentions are how serious – or in general leaves from the answer, or answers inattentively. You try to talk to it, to tell about something, so it very clearly shows that it is uninteresting to it. It confuses girls, sometimes offends to tears. They have doubts in sincerity of feelings of guys: unless so behave with those who are loved? And the thing is that girls just incorrectly talked!
Instruction
1. Do not wait that what for certain would interest your girlfriend will be interesting to the guy! Subjects which 99% of girls will discuss greedily with the burning eyes cause in 99% of guys at best yawning, in the worst – badly hidden irritation. Well, deeply they in what blouse came to the lecture Lenka whom Svetka kissed whether Nadka has reasons for jealousy "do not care". From there is a conclusion: if you wantif you want the young man willingly to talk to you – choose the subjects interesting to it, but not to you!
2. Remember that guys just hate rhetorical, senseless (again, from them, but not from your point of view) questions. They are firmly convinced that over and over again, nearly every day to ask about the same, only the person who has problems or intelligently, or with memory can. Especially female ability to answer such questions, wandering "yes near around", getting off on minor details, they are deprived by nature!
3. Therefore, lovely girls, refrain from desire all the time to ask infinite questions: "How are you doing?" and even: "Do you love me?" Even if you very much want to hear a voice of darling again. Ask better quite specific question concerning quite specific problem which busy the guy right now and to you it is not necessary to complain of his reticence.
4. At last, quite natural and clear aspiration of the girl to learn: whether intentions of the guy are serious whether to prepare for a wedding? But it is very frequent instead of with truly women's art to suggest it this idea that he showed an initiative, the girl takes a position of the aggressive accuser: "I want to clear up, at last!", "My patience burst, I need the answer!" It is natural that the young man whom force to feel guilty "will instinctively bristle up", will avoid in every possible way this conversation.
5. Girls, remember: not only it is not pleasant to you when you "are driven into a corner"! Strangely enough, guys cannot suffer it too. Generally, behave correctly, and then guys will be not so difficult to be brought to straight talk at all!