Girls love generous men who beautifully look after them and give gifts. And, it is absolutely unimportant how the presented thing if only it was a courtesy will expensively cost. However some men prefer to protect all the money and refuse costs of the lady.
The commercialism is, probably, the most terrible quality of the person what can only be. Many girls call the greedy man, the cheapskate, and, alas, it is the truth. Before getting the relations with such person, think whether you will be able to refuse for some reason for the sake of his principles. His male egoism, mentality or strict education of parents can induce the man to greed, for example.
Why men greedy?
Sometimes men become greedy because of some endured circumstances, for example, poverty or constant shortage something in the past. Before reproaching the man with this shortcoming, learn from it, it can needed something earlier. But not only it can be the cause of commercialism of character, men at whom ancestors died of hunger quite often meet therefore it knows firsthand that it means deficiency of things, products and another.
There are also such men who always, collect something, for something save or are keen on some business.
Other factor of male greed is that it can be in you insufficiently sure. But it meets quite often at the initial stage of the relations. And all because he thinks that you not his girl on life, and he does not want to spend for you money. But not everyone thinks of a consequence of such thoughts. Complexes, too quite often become the reason of so terrible behavior of the man. Many oppressing thoughts can influence mentality of the man, but those which already created something standing, in the life do not suffer from it.
Whether it is worth forgiving greed of the man?
If you chose the greedy man, it in some way can be for you big advantage. As he will help to plan your family budget correctly.
After a certain period, the situation with the budget will be arranged, and you will not need anything.
It is much heavier to fight against complexes because it is rather labor-intensive and long process. You speak to the man more often about what he good and in every possible way show to him attention. On the other hand, turn into whimsical "milady" and completely try to obtain what you wish. Your young man will not understand what happens to you, and he will have no other exit except how to provide you all that you want. Anyway to fight against psychology of the man madly difficult. And, maybe, your man just is not able to look after girls? Then just sit down and tell him what does not suit you. Forgive those to the man him greed, perhaps, over time you will manage to get rid of it.