Each man though in time in life thinks of creation of family. Someone gets family at early age, someone after 30, and someone makes at all the decision to remain the bachelor. It is sometimes connected with the overestimated requirements to the darling, and in certain cases the man cannot be defined how to choose the suitable girl in the wife.
How it is correct to choose the wife?
If you are ready to get married, and want to learn how to choose the wife, pay attention to the following signs in the relations of the girl and man.
- Maturity. Many men prefer girls more young than. But by the time of the wedding at the girl the personality is not created yet and in a couple of years it can turn out that they with the spouse absolutely different people. Many think that such girl can be brought up on the of manners, but, as a rule, such attempts do not lead to anything good.
- Readiness for marriage. Most of girls dream of marriage since young years. But it does not mean at all that they are morally ready to marriage. Readiness to make a compromise, to accept the partner with his shortcomings, to refuse some habits – here that can serve as a signal of readiness of the girl.
- Relations to life and economy. You have to define for yourself – whether you are ready that your future spouse is not able to do even sandwich. The problem is small as at need at the elementary level everyone can master culinary art. The question is in whether the girl is ready to make such compromise. If she persistently refuses to participate in the solution of everyday issues, then you should solve whether you are ready to employ the housemaid, to deal with these issues personally or to look for other bride.
- Relations with parents. It is known that parents have influence on the daughters. Therefore, it is possible that if in accordance with the circumstances you will not be pleasant to future mother-in-law, your relations with the wife will worsen day by day. It is better if the girl is already morally ready to leave a parental nest and is ready to analyze the acts in the serious relations without hints and influence of parents.
There is no only correct conclusion as it is correct to choose the wife. Today, very few people try to get married, without having lived before it together. This check on compatibility allows to draw conclusions whether you suit one another. As a rule, half a year of cohabitation is quite enough for couple to understand the feelings.