Many women want to listen as often as possible to compliments, to keep up the conversation with darling, to get support and encouragement from his words. But there are also silent men with whom to communicate happens not so easily.
Instruction
1. Women often make mistakes because do not know the reasons of silence of the loved one. Begins to seem to them that the man does not love or tries to hide something. Though in fact everything is absolutely differently. Most of men do not find it necessary to expatiate on the problems. But if still it is possible to learn something from some, then others consider that their problems concern only them. As a rule, on appearance and behavior of such people it is really difficult to understand something. However, as a rule, at the difficult moments they become even more silent, than usually. In this case it is not necessary to exasperate the man with inquiries, especially, to try to pressure him.
2. Happens that the woman begins to think out the versions of succession of events. As a result, there are charges of what was not actually. Certainly, thus it is possible to hurt darling only. Happens that the lady tries to force the man to tell in any way her about everything. However it will hardly manage to be carried out in practice. Such men try not to shift the problems to others, in particular – to the girlfriend. Therefore it is better to try to distract it from gloomy thoughts, to descend with it somewhere or to give romantic party, having prepared its favourite dishes. So he will be able to vanish and quicker to forget about the experiences.
3. Often such men try not to speak aloud about the love. Of course, ladies lack it, and they begin to accuse him of callousness and insensibility. It is not necessary to do it at all, as a rule, such people show the love not in words, and in practice, and it is much more important. Besides, they really do not understand why to speak about love constantly. For the silent person the word told once has huge value. If he told that he loves, - it is a statement eternal and firm. In case the love leaves, he by all means will report about it.
4. Silent people have one indisputable advantage. As a rule, they are excellent listeners. Unlike other chatterers, such men really are able to hear the women. If they have really valuable thoughts concerning heard, they by all means will state them and will be able to give a practical advice. However comments and councils, most likely, will be short, silent people got used to speak only on business.