Looking for the soulmate, it is worth being more careful with those guys for whom there are no high feelings and any principles. Having had seducing art down to a science, they without effort find the new victim only in order that having achieved proximity with it, immediately to begin to look for other suitable candidacy. Not to be cruelly deceived, it is worth learning to distinguish pikaper.
Instruction
1. Consider that pikaper have the technique of seducing of the victim. It is based on such postulates as: the unusual beginning of acquaintance, obligatory corporal contact during all meetings (the guy during the conversation will seek to touch you), promotion on spontaneous sex during the third appointment. Already on the first appointment the pikaper will surely ask your phone number, and here to call you maybe in a week.
2. Do not forget also that masters of seducing improve the used receptions all the time therefore given above can be a little modified, for example, sex on the second or fourth appointment, phone call to you for the day following after acquaintance, etc. If you found all these signs in behavior of your young man, be more careful, perhaps, he is interested not in you, and in own self-affirmation.
3. If you suspect that the guy who is actively looking after you a pikaper, ask it something to buy you. One more major principle of the pickup – to avoid expenditure for "ladylove". Usually specialists in seducing begin to bargain, asking about what the victim can reward his generosity. However in their arsenal there is also one more reception – to buy everything in much bigger volume, than it is required: ice cream – a bucket, Coca-Colas – 2 liters, etc. It becomes with the purpose the lady lagged behind with the mercantile requests.
4. You ask the guy to make a date where you want. Usually at a pikaper everything is accurately planned, and hardly he with ease will agree to grant your request.
5. Actively ask the young man on where he studies or works, than does in the spare time where lives what plans at him for the future. What has hobbies, interests, etc. of Pikapera do not love similar questions, their purpose is to collect as much as possible information on you that with ease to turn the purposes into reality.
6. Begin in the presence of the guy kind of accidentally to use pikapersky terms in a conversation, at the same time make in them mistakes. If it corrects you, you will have an occasion to suspect of it a pikaper. Other option - call them correctly and you monitor its reaction. For example, it is possible to use unostentatiously such terms as "field" – the place of acquaintance to girls; "opener" – the first phrase at acquaintance, from English open – to open; "rapport" – fine tuning under the victim; "calibration" – assessment of reaction of the person to your words. Having heard familiar terms, the pikaper can come to confusion as will decide that you understood who is he and that from you it is necessary for it.
7. Consider that the equipment of the pickup teaches guys to be "cultural". If your young man often quotes philosophers, writers, reads verses, especially in combination with the above signs, there is a probability that he is a pikaper.
8. It is worth not to forgetting also that the pikaper seeks to get by all means into soul, to win over the victim. Therefore if you very quickly felt that at you with the guy much in common, you should not do hasty conclusions – perhaps, his behavior was calculated just on as much as possible to win over you.