How to endure distance

How to endure distance

The loving hearts take separation very hard. Really, when the soulmate somewhere away, apparently, that the whole world becomes gray and boring. Whether but only depends on your spirit you with pleasure you will wait for a meeting or to cry in a pillow with melancholy.

1. Do not despond. What distance would not separate you from each other, sooner or later you will be able to overcome it and to meet. Therefore be mentally adjusted on the fact that nothing terrible occurs. Remember the happy moments spent together and think of joyful events which still will be: what places you visit what holidays you will celebrate.

2. Try to disseminate grief in all possible ways: meet friends, do some shopping, go to relatives, be fond of something, etc. Remember what wanted to be made long ago, but for any reasons it was postponed. Maybe you dreamed to sew a dress, to recolour the car, somewhere to descend, write the book, to learn to knit, paint a picture or etc. Generally, the main thing to occupy itself with business which really is pleasant. For keen people time passes quickly, and any distance seems insignificant.

3. Give yourself full-time job. Any work distracts from melancholy: meetings, transactions, negotiations, lectures, examinations, capital cleaning (and also repair can) in the apartment, etc. In the afternoon you will be busy, and in the evening fatigue and preparation for further activity will banish gloomy thoughts. After such everyday life it is possible to relax: to watch the movie (it is better the comedy, otherwise you risk to be depressed) or to read the book.

4. Prepare a surprise for arrival of the beloved (beloved). Maybe you issue a big photo album with memorable pictures, will knit a sweater, write verses. Wait for a meeting, and desire will surely be granted.

5. Behind interesting occupations do not forget about darling. In separation by the best friends there are phone and the Internet. In the presence of the webcam you will be able even to see each other. Send romantic SMS, you call, send electronic gifts - such acts will please you and your half. Separation will seem not such terrible if constantly to keep in contact.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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