It is quite simple to gain the confidence of the interlocutor if in the course of the conversation it becomes clear that you with it have common interests. You just begin to communicate with the person on your general favourite subjects, are liberated and talk further already as old acquaintances or even friends.
Instruction
1. This way is on arms of skilled manipulators which try to start a conversation to the course, interesting to "victim". If to consider this reception in couple "the man and the woman" then it is necessary to be careful. Dear women, if you tell the male interlocutor that you it is crazy about soccer, hockey, kaskadersky tricks and the Metallica group too, then you can not be believed.
2. The fact is that female and male tastes differ. Women like to watch romantic movies, a talk show more and to listen to light music. And men fighters prefer, sport and also heavier music. Of course, from this rule there is also an exception, but it is already other question.
3. Let's say your interlocutor is fond of books by Tolkien. He already managed to read all his works and to watch all screen versions. Knowing it, you can improve the relations with the person with little effort. Say casually, kind of between times that you the other day read the last work by the author from the Lord of the Rings series and it very much was pleasant to you. Of course, if you are not the true fan of Tolkien, then be prepared for a conversation about an idol in advance: read several books and watch at least one screen version. Otherwise, you can be trapped.
4. Unconditional plus for you will be if you really are fond of Tolkien and you watch the new facts, with it connected. So you will gain of the man the confidence much quicker. If you surprise the man with some new facts from the writer's life, he will be very grateful to you. And if you also find the full (director's) version of its favourite movie with rare interviews or will get tickets for its favourite event, then will render to the person huge service. In the future this person just will not be able to refuse pursuant to your request.