The first love is always sincere feelings, gentle kisses, touching appointments. But the morning sun never lasts a day - the love leaves too. How to experience the first love?
Instruction
1. The first pain - it is always insufferably sick. After parting it seems that the world failed. You were abandoned by your only happiness, and you are not fated to experience such emotions again. Believe, time heals - from memory emotions, joyful and sad events are erased. And you again in a system. It is important not to be obsessed and not to become unstuck. For a start you should have a good cry. Conditions of a slight depression all the same not to avoid. It is so best of all not to hold it inside and not to aggravate with that the state. Eat chocolates, roll on a sofa, you watch love melodramas and cry. But you should not tighten with it, and that turn into the terrible crybaby and the crybaby.
2. Occupy yourself with something. Move in sport better - it always distracts from excess thoughts. Besides physical activities very much exhaust an organism, and at you time to indulge in despondency will not be simple. A sin to indulge in despondency when there are other sins.
3. If you were thrown, then, for certain, your self-assessment fell and to tend to zero. Do not look for the reasons in yourself. Never authentically you know what happens at the person in the head. You such what you are and it is not necessary to be killed if preferred you another. Indulge yourself. The mood is well influenced by change of image: recolour and cut hair, buy a couple of new dresses in clothes. The bathtub with sea salt and aromatic oils will relax you and will inhale new life.
4. Find more time for yourself and be not afraid of loneliness. Make to yourself a smart dinner or read the interesting book, watch the favourite movie. Now you can do everything that to you will like, within, of course, Criminal code. You the hostess of the life, you with anybody do not need to look for compromises. Enjoy loneliness.
5. If loneliness not for you, and you feel as the mouse driven into a corner - get a pet. Better dog. Evening walks, feeding, visit of the veterinarian and other small cares will take away from you a lot of time which you could spend for regrets about a bad experience of the first love. One more obvious advantage: the sincere love and a charge will be provided to you with positive energy. You will have feeling of own importance, importance and need that will obviously not be enough for you after a gap.
6. If all attempts made by you are unsuccessful, then it is worth asking for the help the qualified specialist psychologist who will look for opportunities and methods of disposal of a depression and melancholy at deeper psychological level. Also always the mother who will always understand, will surround with warmth and care and will give a valuable advice can be uttered. If you the advanced blogger, then it is possible to ask the help and council at various forums, on social networks and in other similar Internet resources.
7. The first love - remarkable feeling which inspires us and moves heaven and earth head over heels. Do not become isolated. Do not become embittered for the whole world, he is so beautiful. Remember only good. Rejoice that this person was in your life that he taught much. The destiny will not keep long itself waiting - will send love new, light. full of charm and emotions.