I was told one interesting story: the great lady of sixty seven years, married and moved to other city to darling. It would seem, the situation usual today, and not it happens. But all salt of the story is that pigeons of old age found each other in the Internet, on a dating site. And than I am worse, any of you will ask, and it will be absolutely right. Besides similar acquaintances happen pretty often, bright examples of happy couples among friends and acquaintances have to disseminate your last doubts. Not to be unfounded, I on a personal example passed all stages of search of the promised. At first swore, then frankly laughed, then began to enjoy. Tightens whether you know.
Instruction
1. We choose a dating site. Here it is necessary to sweat and reconsider a set of variations. In the beginning I recommend to read reviews of the different websites, and to visit even the most useless of them (and suddenly intrigues of envious competitors). Sometimes, happens, the intuition works at once as soon as you visited the page of the website chosen by you: registration, the welcome text, convenient and clear registration in many respects will facilitate your search. Be registered on several websites at the same time then to eliminate those which to you did not attract.
2. Questionnaire on a dating site. Spend time and be not too lazy to write about the preferences and hobbies. It seems to you that nobody reads these questionnaires, and look only at photos. It just at the first stage. But when applicants will become interested in you, it will be curious to them to learn about you in more detail. Besides almost on all dating sites the system of questioning of participants with leading questions is thought over. On some carry out even preliminary psychological test scientifically to calculate the greatest compatibility of candidates. Better to understand with what information to fill the profile, begin to look through the people who interested you, and you will see all pluses and minuses at once. For search process amusement, we include a mental set: I look for the best of men, he is obliged to have such and syaky qualities, and is worthy me because … Why he you is worthy, you also should describe colourfully in the questionnaire.
3. How to choose guys on a dating site? I, of course, not the expert, but from personal experience can prompt several positions on a departure which caused in me laughter, and at times and disgust: - It is doubtful when the man calls himself TvoySladkiyPrynts or KroshkaEnot. It suggests an idea that here and does not smell of the serious relations. Other option, not such luscious, but if the adult forty-year-old representative of a strong half of mankind calls himself Vovan or Zhorik, somehow vanishes hunting to meet him. Perhaps I carp, but this my subjective opinion. - Also young men, such narcissuses parading the naked torsos in a pose of the Greek god touch. I not against, and it is not a shame to show a beautiful body. But when all photo collection of the candidate consists only of his rolled parts of a body, will think, but whether you with it will be pushed at one mirror. - Now we will talk about uncivilized, bad persons who will surely litter your messages with offers of intim, etc. Alas, what filters you would not put to secure yourself against encroachments of similar individuals, they by some miracle all the same manage to make the way in your profile. There is only one way – to ignore. What platitudes would not write the most important that you would not read, to you, be not upset and do not take very much to heart. Loudly express the "faugh" in space that negative energy went to space and did not disturb you searching.
4. Real meetings from a dating site. The outcome – a meeting in real approaches. In confidence I will tell, it only the beginning, very rare bird from the first time hits the mark. But as excitingly! Do not forget the simplest safety rules: meet in crowded places when on the street still light, having warned the relatives where and with whom you go. And further the most interesting begins. Based on my observations, at a real meeting it turns out that the elect at all not such is to what seemed according to photos and correspondence. One such the handsome in the messages with me was extremely polite, argued as the man, wanted to settle down and give up dashing club life of the bachelor. I was bought, washing naivety is ineradicable, alas. Agreed to meet, take a walk in the park. Handsome met me at the subway (without flowers, nowadays it not in fashion, probably). The appointment took place as well as possible. Passing by the quiet small street, kind of accidentally mentioned that there is a hotel good. I think, all right, I will not panic, can just tells about local attractions. Next day he directly suggested to meet in that hotel. So my hopes with a roar failed. Other bitter case - after several fine appointments my potential groom went to a business trip. As it became clear later, at it as in the movie the wife and three children there. I tell these horror stories that you, dear brides, did not hurry to plan a wedding and future kids, you do not recognize the person closer and that is important, in any state yet. Because there were cases when I was met on the first appointment with the fresh reek of alcohol. The man justified himself the fact that I was late, here he also did not restrain, the poor fellow, having passed away expectation in the next pub.