You were thrown by the man? Well, it can happen to everyone, even to the most beautiful, even to the cleverest, the kind, loving, attractive girl. The reasons for such act can be the most various, and the gap endures everyone in own way. Someone understands that it is necessary to release the person, and moves further. But what to do if you too love the person and are not capable to release him? They say that twice one river do not enter, but if you so want to try, but at least follow some main advice.
Instruction
1. First of all, stock up with patience. Remember that reasons for parting there can be a huge set. Perhaps, your man was captivated by some other woman, and very often happens that it is only for a while the flashed passion. He will calm down, will begin to see clearly and will understand that he made a mistake, so, everything will be resolved by itself. Certainly, so occurs not in all cases. But anyway, the first that you should make is to relax. Develop, go somewhere to have a rest, change vital scenery, perhaps, get the new relations. However if your feelings are very strong, it will not be possible to relax for a long time, of course.
2. Be consecutive, persistently go towards the aim. You should not throw the man with messages, to exasperate with calls, generally, to be persuasive. He threw you because something in such life did not suit it. Quite perhaps, it did not accept something in you and if now you actively exasperate him, then you only aggravate a situation. Release the man, understand that now (we will hope that it is temporary) he is not yours. He has to feel this freedom and independently make the decision. Therefore constrain the emotions.
3. Become with being friends. If you left badly, then through some time try to come into friendly contact with it. If your feelings were strong, then to erase you from memory and heart at it all the same it will not turn out, you are connected too strong. Suggest it to become friends, let he will begin to trust you as to the friend. Look for some general subjects for a talk which will not concern your relations. Also be not for it the opened book. Do not spread to it details of the private life, let in it interest and curiosity will wake up.
4. Take care of the own life. Is not necessary because you were thrown by the guy, to acquire a heap of complexes and to think that in you all not so. But, it is possible if you register in fitness club, update clothes and you will make a new hairstyle, you will open for the former person absolutely on the other hand, and interest in you will wake up with a new force. And in general, transformations always do well.
5. Also you remember: if you are fated to be together, all of you equally will be together. If you feel that it is not your person and that the future at you will not turn out, then release it and forget. Even if very much you love. He is not the last man on the earth. Happiness to you and good luck!