Long since, in the people of girls learned not to marry jealous, lazy and strongly drinking. And it is correct, all these defects to correct very not easy. But happens and so that the good, kind and loving spouse suddenly begins often to put for a collar and his wife, having become puzzled, does not even know what to do and how to live further. Alcoholism of the husband leads to a set of other problems – with health, finance, the relations … How to force the husband to stop drinking, without going to the extremities? It is possible, but for this purpose the woman should put a lot of effort. In this material we will concern this difficult subject and we will tell how to force to stop drinking the spouse or just the beloved.
The first, firm principle to force the husband to forget about alcoholic drinks, you are simply obliged to announce the Prohibition in family! Any your indulgences (themselves, parents, the husband), even on big holidays, will affect the man as a red rag on a furious bull. Avoid the companies and feasts, forget about a glass for a sogrev in winter evenings! Yes, it is difficult, especially considering Slavic traditions, but it is necessary.
How to disaccustom the husband to drink alcohol and to accustom him to a sober way of life? Know – nothing will turn out while he accurately does not realize that he wants it. The lack of affairs and hobbies becomes frequent the alcoholism reason – the man has nothing to do in the spare time, and he does not see himself in other company, except as among fellow drinking companions. Find new fascinating occupations in which it will be interesting to you to be engaged together! It can be the pool, skis, viewing film masterpieces, a game in chess, dancing studio, anything!
Women, be ready that you should pass through difficult test, getting used to live kind of with the new husband. It will be hard for it, the first several months, he can suddenly begin to ache, grumble, show aggression in relation to you and children. Be gained tranquility and just help the spouse to endure so difficult period of his life.
How to force the beloved to stop drinking alcohol?
Here the list of advice which precisely will help you:
- Before beginning to work, deal with the reasons which caused alcoholism in the husband. Can provoke constant quarrels in family to failure, failures at work, departure to other country of the close friend.
- Create so pleasant and cozy atmosphere that the spouse did not want to leave somewhere in the house even if there it will be waited by drinking companions and favourite alcoholic drinks. Air the room, you bring order, be and are attentive and polite, do not meet with reproaches.
- If you are serious to force the husband not to drink alcohol, be quiet, kind and patient. You treat the husband as the sick child. You remember – so serious problem can only be aggravated with shouts and scandals.
- Let know to the man that he is necessary to you. He has to feel the importance and authoritativeness for you and children. You ask it to help more often, to promote, advise. It can return sense of responsibility and own importance.
- Try to revive your relations, to return the interest of the husband in itself. It is for this purpose good to leave far away only together, at least for a week. But it should not be the hotel all inclusive where alcohol flows like water. More the lonely lodge, in mountains or by the sea will approach.
- Be not given to a problem entirely, do not forget about yourself, the hobbies and interests.
All these councils are good, but if you do everything possible, and the situation not to improve, the spouse everything will also prefer a glass, but not family, do not pull – address experts!